By Paula Mowery
From experience, I am a firm believer in the fact
that God never wastes anything, including our struggles. How often I find
myself learning lessons from the trials I have been through.
Looking back on those days of bitterness and
depression when I couldn’t get pregnant, I now know that I was trying to be in
control. So, there is lesson number one. I am not in control. God is and that
is how it should be.
Another related lesson was that my timing isn’t
God’s timing. God knows the plan and path He has set before me. I so often want
to jump ahead or even take a different route because I want what I want now.
But, God’s way is always best even if I don’t like it.
Still another lesson was God will listen and
comfort. God listened when I whined and when I argued. He listened when I
mourned. His Spirit comforted me at my low points.
My infertility battle wasn’t wasted since God taught
me some valuable lessons, but He also allowed me to encourage others. He led me
into the paths of other women suffering through this dilemma. I was able to
comfort them and relate what I had learned through my experience. I could not
only sympathize but empathize.
During my years of trying to get pregnant and
enduring testing, I had no Godly resource to help me through. About a year ago,
God brought me together with five other authors who had gone through this same
battle. We have written our stories in a new devotional from Chalfont House
called A Walk in the Valley.
Our prayer is that our stories will encourage other
women going through this valley. See? God knew all along that we would share
our infertility paths in this way. None of our experiences were wasted but used
to His glory.
Paula is a pastor’s wife, mom to a college student, author,
acquiring editor, and speaker. No matter the hat she wears, she strives to
honor God’s plan even if it means going out on a limb and leaving comfort
zones. Reviewers have characterized her writing as “thundering with emotion.”
Her book, Be The Blessing, won the 2014 Selah Award in the novella category.
Paula enjoys reading and reviewing Christian fiction, writing Christian romance
and devotionals, and helping other authors realize their
dream of publication.
You can follow Paula at www.facebook.com/pages/Paula-Mowery/175869562589187.
Learn more about Paula at her blog at www.paulamowery.blogspot.com or
enjoy her monthly columns on www.christianonlinemagazine.com.
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