By Ada Brownell
One of the first things I learned about parenting
was that as a child of God, I didn’t have to do it by myself.
God calls others to help. Ephesians 4:10-12 says, “0He that descended is the same
also that ascended up far above all heavens, that he might fulfill all things.11 And he gave some, apostles;
and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers; For
the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of
the body of Christ.”
Our
children had great pastors, youth pastors, Sunday school teachers, evangelists,
as well as great Christian friends who influenced them in the choice to give
their lives and talents to Christ.
To
help your children make the choice to “go to heaven” here are a few things my
husband and I did when they were young.
·
Attend a full gospel church where the gospel is preached and
rightly divided. Full gospel churches usually teach salvation comes only when
we believe Jesus died for our sins, and resurrected on the third day. Full
gospel churches believe in the divine inspiration of the Bible as God’s Word, the
baptism in the Holy Spirit with the evidence of supernatural speaking in other
tongues. They also believe in Divine Healing, the Catching away of the church
in the rapture, and the Second Coming of Jesus.
·
Scriptures for you to share:
“If thou will confess the Lord Jesus and believe in thine heart that God raised
him from the dead, thou shalt be saved” (Romans 10:9). “If we confess our sins,
he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and cleanse us from all
unrighteousness.”
Another:
“But you will receive power after the Holy Ghost has come upon you. And you
shall be witnesses unto me …” (Acts 1:8). “And while they watched, he was taken
up and a cloud received him out of their sight. .. While they looked
steadfastly toward heaven as he went up, behold two men stood by them in white
apparel who also said, ‘This same Jesus who was taken up from you into heaven,
will so come in like manner as you have seen him go into heaven” (Acts 1:9-11).
·
Become a student of the Word of God, the Bible yourself. “Study to
shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that
needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth. But
shun profane and vain babblings: for they will increase unto more ungodliness.
(2 Timothy 2:15-16).
·
Teach them to become students of the Word. “All
scripture is given by
inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for
correction, for instruction in righteousness” (2 Timothy 3:16)
Hopefully your church has programs for youth like Royal Rangers,
Missionettes, Bible Quiz, Talent contests, and services where young people can
use their talents and ministries.
·
Watch who their heroes are. Expose them to great
people—Bible characters and adults as well as teens who are living for God.
·
Go to missions services. When they’re just
forming opinions and finding people to “worship” let them know the difference
between fantasy, fiction, reality, and history. They may adore Spiderman and
Star Wars characters, but they should understand they don’t exist, and when God
enabled David to kill Goliath, David wasn’t a vegetable from Veggie Tales, he
was a real person who lived, loved God and did great things in His name.
The three young Hebrews who survived the fiery furnace after
refusing to bow down to the king, were real people like you, but God was there
to protect them.
* Teach your children God loved them from the beginning of
their lives. “I knew you before I formed you in your
mother’s womb” (Jeremiah 1:5).
However, when Jesus was born as a baby in Bethlehem, he was
different from any other baby because he is God’s son. Jesus was in heaven
before he came to earth. Jesus was there when the world and people were created.
Jesus, God’s only Son; and the Holy Spirit were there in the beginning. “And
God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the
fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over
all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth” (Genesis
1:26).
Buy them
great books that support your values, and if your child is in a public school,
survey assigned books, which sometimes can be X-rated and ask for a substitute.
If your student is required to study propaganda and false doctrine, survey it
and teach your child why you don’t believe that. Don’t be afraid to approach a
teacher, a principal or a superintendent of schools with your protests, and do
it in writing. Yet be Christ-like not only as a witness to the educator, but
also to your child.
Always ask for them to be excused from sex
education classes, but teach them from the curriculum of a Christian School.
Ask homeschoolers and Christian school workers for recommendations. Abeka has
online Christian texts.
I read about you on Gail Kittleson's blog. What a challenging life you had. I look forward to getting the opportunity to read your book about all the travels and experiences as your husband's life partner. Blessings, Nancy A
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