Playing the Blame Game (Devotion)
By Ginger Solomon
When bad things happen, we all
want someone to blame. It’s a natural reaction. It’s been happening since the
beginning of time. In Genesis, Adam had the audacity to blame God for “the
woman you gave me,” then Eve blamed their sin on the serpent (Gen. 3:12-13).
Whether it’s sin or death or some
other disaster, we want answers. We want an explanation. We ask, “Why is this
happening to me?” Many times we blame God for the situation.
There’s a saying that’s been
going around for a while, “God will not give you more than you can handle.” I
beg to differ. If He were to only give us what we could handle, then we wouldn’t need Him.
In Luke, it is recorded that
Jesus confronted the chief priests and scribes with the parable of the
vinedressers. (Luke 20:9-19). When he finished the parable, he added a little
Scripture. Verses 17 and 18(NKJV), “Then He looked at them and said, ‘What then
is this that is written: “The stone which the builders rejected has become the
chief cornerstone”? Whoever falls on that stone will be broken; but on whomever
it falls, it will grind him to powder.’”
For years, I have pondered this
verse. Many might find it discouraging, but I do not. Why? Because I have
realized that if I fall on Jesus, who is the cornerstone, I might be broken. It
will probably hurt. BUT God, with grace and mercy, sent Jesus to heal the
broken. (Isaiah 61:1, Luke 4:18)
We all go through trials and
tribulations. In fact, the Bible promises that we will. It also promises that
God will never leave us or forsake us (Heb. 13:5), and that He would always be
with us (Matt. 28:20).
In my debut novel, One Choice, my heroine, Cahri steps away
from God when her parents are killed on the mission field. For years, she lives
“going through the motions” of being a Christian, but in her heart she knows
how far she’s wandered from God. BUT God does not give up on her. Throughout
the story, we see His loving hand on her life — guiding, protecting, providing.
God is faithful (Deut. 7:9, 1
Cor. 1:9) and He does not turn away from us even when we move away from Him. He
prods at us gently – through nature, memories, friends, and so many other ways.
He loves us and wants us to return to Him.
When bad things happen we must
learn that blaming is not going to make us feel better. Only God’s presence can
sooth our tattered and wounded souls.
Have you played the blame game
with God? He doesn’t mind your questions, or your anger, but He always wants
you to come to Him for your comfort. There is no better place to be than on the
lap of Abba (Daddy, God) when life throws us more than we can handle.
Short bio:
Ginger Solomon is a Christian, a wife, a mother to seven,
and a writer—in that order (mostly). When not homeschooling her youngest five,
doing laundry or fixing dinner, she writes or reads romance of any genre. She’s
a member of American Christian Fiction Writers, president of her local writing
group, and writes regularly for three blogs.
Long bio:
Ginger Solomon is a Christian, a wife, a mother to seven,
and a writer — in that order (mostly). When not homeschooling her youngest
five, doing laundry or fixing dinner, she writes or reads romance of any genre,
some sci-fi/fantasy, and some suspense. She’s a member of American Christian
Fiction Writers, president of her local writing group, and writes regularly for
three blogs. In addition to all that, she loves animals, horses especially,
likes to do needlework (knitting, crocheting, and sometimes cross-stitch), and
loves to sing in the choir at church.
My Links:
One Choice blurb:
Cahri
Michaels is American by birth, but Belikarian by choice. Being selected to
participate in the Bridal March forces her to give up the independent life
she’s created for herself. She’s not ready to be anyone’s wife, much less to a
man she doesn’t know.
Prince Josiah
Vallis despises the centuries old tradition—the Bridal March—that is forcing
him to choose a wife from fifty women. Why does it matter that he’s twenty-five
and still single?
When Cahri
and Josiah meet, sparks fly. Will it ignite a godly love that can see them
through or will they be burned, never to be the same?
One Choice links:
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